WolfieToons by Dave Wolfe

WolfieToons by Dave Wolfe

Wednesday, January 8, 2014

Asking For It


It has been said that if a woman has to ask for attention and affection, her man is not doing his job.

There is, however, often communication confusion between the sexes.  Men are generally straightforward (which is not to say aggravatingly obtuse) and women are generally subtle and complex (which is not to say tortuously murky.)

The late Fr. Andrew Greeley often said in his novels that men must learn "that when a woman says no, it means no, unless it means yes or maybe." 

What I hope you'll take away from this, men, is that it is worth the effort to try to read all the signals to see what your woman is really saying, and women, please try to be as direct as possible with us.  

For example, if you feel inclined to a good spanking, but are disinclined to say aloud, "Honey would you please spank my little bottom until the glow can light up the hallway?" you can give us a visual clue.  Maybe like this: 



This girl is asking for it, with some degree of subtlety.




This girl is asking for it with a lot less subtlety: 




And this woman is using no subtlety whatsoever.





And of course, sometimes your fella will tell you that it's time for a butt whapping. 





The end result is that everyone will be happy with clear communication..



10 comments:

  1. Love this topic, DW, and so splendidly illustrated with your wonderful WolfieToons. Season and I are pretty good at communication overall and especially so with our spanking needs. When it comes to communicating about spankings I am more verbal as I love to hug Season and whisper in her ear she is about to spanked which never fails to elicit a tiny gasp and an immediate blush that blooms across her face. I also have non-verbal indicators like when she is in the shower I will leave out one of her pairs of panties with a message across the seat such as "Spank Zone" or "Hot Seat" written in flames. Incidentally, these panties were a "gift" from her imp sister cj. Talk about the gift that keeps giving! Season is a little more shy so on occasion she will leave me a note on the dresser or folded in the clothes I have laid out to wear after my shower. But overall we are good at reading each other and are very good at anticipating and fulfilling our needs.

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    1. Thanks, Mike!

      I recall your story, too, about Season slipping you the shopping list with the item "A Red Bottom" at the end! Now that's original! And it was highly effective! I don't know if any groceries got got, but other important matters were handled!

      You two are an inspiration!

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    2. Good memory, DW. My little minx of a wife did write that on a shopping list and I delivered big time. A Top's gotta do what a Top's gotta do.

      Also, been meaning to mention I like the tweaks you did to your colorful banner above.

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    3. Thanks again, Mike!

      Yeah, I figured it was time to freshen up the look, plus this banner has 50% more butts than the ole one!

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    4. 50% more butts? Strange, DW, I didn't see an imp with three butt cheeks? Sounds like something from the science fiction movie "Total Recall" where Ahnold Schwarzenegger was on the planet Mars.

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    5. :D Now I'll have to do a cartoon with an outer space girl (possibly Barsoomian) as you described, and maybe John Cleese in a big bubble helmet announcing, "And now for something completely differetn. A brat with three buttocks."

      Thanks, Mike!!

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    7. Inspiration strikes in many ways, DW, and when you are involved when it strikes it usually means an imp has an ouchy bum.
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  2. LOL! What a clever display of toons illustrating the levels of communication women resort to when spankage is desired. Or, er, earned. …and men are being aggravatingly obtuse. :-P

    Just kidding! This is a fun post, DW!

    Michael, you and Season have some fun ways to communicate! Having someone whisper in your ear that a spanking is coming must be just so HOT. ;-)

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    1. Thanks, Darlin' Larken! I wasn't even sure I was making sense, but I had these leftovers to use up...

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