"WolfieToons" are for adults who enjoy playful erotic spanking cartoons; If that isn't you, best keep surfing. And if you are under eighteen-- Scram, Kid!
Thank you very much. I was joking, and so was our bestriped spankee.
There's really nothing at all perverted about this predilection, unless, in my mind, you're trying to really hurt, subjugate, or belittle someone. If it's consensual and fun, if you're paying attention to your loving playmate, it can be a nice thrill, and certainly isn't stranger than any number of other sex acts. Sex is pretty silly to begin with!
For most of my life I wondered if I was somehow twisted or developmentally stunted for finding spanking sexy. But when the Internet came around, I found any number of men and women, some of my dearest friends, who were intelligent, deeply caring, fine, and funny people who also enjoyed spanking and/or being spanked. I was not alone or in with a pack of drooling maniacs.
You're lucky to be researching now! There's a wealth of information on the Web, and a lot of people happy to share. When I was trying to understand myself, very few books dealt with spanking, except a brief mention of "aberrant behavior," or lumping in with things I didn't relate to, like drawing blood with whips and ecch. And nobody I knew shared the "fetish," when I even dared broach the subject.
There were hints abroad, like all the spankings in romantic comedy movies-- played for laughs, but with a winking awareness of something a little sexy going on. I was often titillated by the occasional "Penthouse Letter" spanking fantasy, although most were poorly written, especially by men pretending to be women. Nancy Friday did collect real female spanking fantasies in her books, which I enjoyed, delighting to discover that at least some women might be on my same wavelength.
Sadly, my ex-wife didn't share my interest in erotic spanking, although she played along, and enjoyed it a few times. But we were mismatched in a bunch of other ways, and parted. We're still friends, more-or-less.
There are, of course, a lot of "takes" on this: there are Tops, Bottoms, Switches, couples into Domestic Discipline, some into harsh Bondage and things I don't find appealing, some who need a "reason" to spank, and some who just think it's jolly fun.
So, to answer your question, for a long time what people might think about my interest did bother me, because I wasn't sure why I enjoyed it myself, or where it came from. Since being able to discuss it with like-minded loved ones and settle things in my mind, it doesn't bother me a bit. I could even explain it to them if they had any interest.
What a delightful parody of the song and group, and with the beautiful bottom of Mrs. brown being spanked.
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Red
Thanks, Red! I love all those songs, and the affection extends to innumerable lyric parodies when I hear them!
DeleteThank you very much. I was joking, and so was our bestriped spankee.
ReplyDeleteThere's really nothing at all perverted about this predilection, unless, in my mind, you're trying to really hurt, subjugate, or belittle someone. If it's consensual and fun, if you're paying attention to your loving playmate, it can be a nice thrill, and certainly isn't stranger than any number of other sex acts. Sex is pretty silly to begin with!
For most of my life I wondered if I was somehow twisted or developmentally stunted for finding spanking sexy. But when the Internet came around, I found any number of men and women, some of my dearest friends, who were intelligent, deeply caring, fine, and funny people who also enjoyed spanking and/or being spanked. I was not alone or in with a pack of drooling maniacs.
You're lucky to be researching now! There's a wealth of information on the Web, and a lot of people happy to share. When I was trying to understand myself, very few books dealt with spanking, except a brief mention of "aberrant behavior," or lumping in with things I didn't relate to, like drawing blood with whips and ecch. And nobody I knew shared the "fetish," when I even dared broach the subject.
There were hints abroad, like all the spankings in romantic comedy movies-- played for laughs, but with a winking awareness of something a little sexy going on.
I was often titillated by the occasional "Penthouse Letter" spanking fantasy, although most were poorly written, especially by men pretending to be women. Nancy Friday did collect real female spanking fantasies in her books, which I enjoyed, delighting to discover that at least some women might be on my same wavelength.
Sadly, my ex-wife didn't share my interest in erotic spanking, although she played along, and enjoyed it a few times. But we were mismatched in a bunch of other ways, and parted. We're still friends, more-or-less.
There are, of course, a lot of "takes" on this: there are Tops, Bottoms, Switches, couples into Domestic Discipline, some into harsh Bondage and things I don't find appealing, some who need a "reason" to spank, and some who just think it's jolly fun.
So, to answer your question, for a long time what people might think about my interest did bother me, because I wasn't sure why I enjoyed it myself, or where it came from. Since being able to discuss it with like-minded loved ones and settle things in my mind, it doesn't bother me a bit. I could even explain it to them if they had any interest.
And thank you for the question!
Oh, and I apologize for taking so long to answer you-- I should check the comments here a lot more often!
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